I am sharing an article addressing your losses from chronic illness. Its not COPD specific. This really hit home with me as I am dealing with this issue. Having multiple health issues, that each have their own restriction. I intend to come out on the other side, but winding my way through this maze. Hope this is ok to post and that it gives insight as well.
http://fibro.tv/newsblogs/85-mourning-the-loss-of-the-former-self-when-chronically-ill?fb_comment_id=867285516644231_891719087534207#f199ec51284f1f8